(Closed) Freaking out! (very long and TMI)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Firstly & for most I am sorry you are going through this. BUT two wrongs do NOT make a right. He forgave you. In doing so he knew it would always be something that happened that could never be erased. Forgiving you meant a fresh start. It meant what happened before that moment was not apart of your new start together as each others Fiance’s.

I think you need to tell him you found them. Weather he gets mad or not. It will always be there in your mind if you don’t. Get couple’s counseling & figure out why your Fiance is doing this. Is it because of your past history of cheating? Is it because he doesn’t feel sexually satisfied? Is it because he felt it was okay since you did it? Ect!

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You should aboslutely confront him about the emails. If I were you I would have called him out on it right away. Once you do it is up to you to decide if you love him and want to try and work things out because he gave you that chance or if that is to much for you to deal with and  you want to end things. I will tell you this though…stop telling yourself you don’t deserve him. You made some mistakes in your past but you are no longer that person and you need to learn to forgive yourself and respect your worth if you want to be in a successful relationship. Good luck girl! 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@alreadyabee: Okay. Good idea. Keep things calm & civil! Good luck!

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@alreadyabee: Oh I didn’t realize you guys didn’t live together. I think you should definitely confront him face to face. Good luck with everything hun!

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Based on the email addresses and the messages that is definitely what I would assume.

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@alreadyabee: No problem.

& It sounds like it could be him actually meeting these women to messing around on a webcam. Does he have a webcam?

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I honestly think it might have been some internet chat thing…. 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

And you don’t deserve either, emails cheating or in person cheating….

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Is there any chance that these could be spam? 

If not, I would definitely ask him about it face to face; that’s not right.

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