(Closed) Freaking out…big time. Need to vent!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4159 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Everything will be okay!  Just take it one step at a time.  Wedding planning is stressful enough as it is, but it sounds like you’ve got a handful of other issues going on too.  Just keep telling yourself that as soon as the wedding is over, the most important thing is that you’re now married to the man of your dreams and eventually, everything will fall into place.  Good luck!

Post # 4
4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m sorry!  This does sound like a lot of stress!  You’ll be able to handle it!  Hugs!

Post # 5
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Can you ask for help from friends and family.  I know when I reach that point my friends and family step in and help even if I don’t ask.  It’s always such a relief.  Just keep doing the next think on your list and try not to think about all the things you haven’t done yet.  Also, I don’t know if you’re religious/ spiritual, but I find that praying a lot in times like yours helps me a lot.  It takes a little bit of the responsibility off because then God is helping me figure it out instead of me doing it all alone.  I’m away from my Darling Husband now and have been for about four months.  It’s sad sometimes but most of the time I’m okay.  Everything will work out and you will get through it.  Just remember to breathe. 🙂

Post # 6
324 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I can relate! I don’t mean to threadjack, but I have to plan this wedding, purge stuff from my place and FI’s place, reupholster and refinish furniture, update FI’s condo, sell it, find a new place to live out of state and find a job out of state, quit my job, read a stack of books 20ft high so I don’t have to throw them out of move with them, sew/alter a giant basket of clothes that I need to wear, list 2 giant baskets of clothes to sell to make extra money, get fit, DIY all of my wedding projects, while working 2 jobs. It think it hasn’t sunk in so I haven’t had my breaking point yet…

So anyway, back to you… I think it’s great that you have a therapist. I’m sure that helps. And all I can say is take it one day at a time. Stay organized. Everything will fall into place! Every once in a while step back and take some time off to just relax. It will all be ok! 🙂

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