(Closed) freindships

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

WHOA! I am so totally there right now. I’m also the only one that moved away, so I also get to deal with the distance problem. However, despite me moving, I’m still the one that tries to keep in touch with everyone. And most of the time, I don’t get a call back. It hurts, and I’m really trying to figure out how to deal with it too.

I think at this point, the only thing we can do it make new friends and move on. It stinks, but I’m tired of making all the effort for little to no response. I don’t understand how people just don’t have time to respond to a facebook wall post, but apparently they don’t and I’m learning how to accept that.

It’ll be interesting to see how it changes once I move back, though. Especially since they’re all mentally still in college and have all the drinking and drama that goes along with it.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I forgot to mention that I’ve been friends with these girls for…about 15 years. So yeah, I get it.

Post # 6
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

If you feel you should more on, then do it. I’ve grown apart from a few of my friends that I’ve known forever as well. It sucks. And it hurts a lot, but I guess it’s pretty common. = (

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ha I had the “what if I can’t make new friends?!” freakout the other day. We might be moving to a new new city (as in, somewhere I’ve never really even BEEN to as an adult) and I’m terrified! Is there a club you can join? Or a gym? Maybe volunteer? These are all things I’m going to try to do if we end up moving. I’m pretty shy and pretty insecure, so it’s really hard for me to make friends. I’ve only moved twice in my life, so I don’t have the practice.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think the friendship is worth it!

How about you invite everyone over for a girls night?

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