(Closed) French kissing – love it? Hate it? Recommendation on how to get my SO into it?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How do you and your SO feel about french kissing?
    We both love it! : (51 votes)
    59 %
    Neither of us are into it : (6 votes)
    7 %
    I like it, it's not his favourite : (17 votes)
    20 %
    It's not my favourite, he likes it : (13 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
    213 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My SO and I love french kissing! He wasn’t into it at first because I’m a crazy push you up against the wall bite your bottom lip type of kisser. At first we avoided kissing alltogether because of my rough demeanor but then I showed him how to kiss me. We actually had a kissing lesson. After running through “How your girl likes to be kissed 101” he loves kissing me now!

    Post # 4
    1212 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I voted we both love it, though he likes it more than I do. He REALLY likes it. 

    I had a sexually inexperienced ex who said that he didn’t want to tongue kiss. I’m pretty sure that he was just scared or something. I eased him into it and he ended up loving it!

    Post # 5
    371 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    My Fiance slobbers all over me and shoves his tongue in right from the beginning, so I am not a huge fan!  Haha.  I try and tell him and it only hurts his feelings so I have just learned to get used to it. πŸ˜›  We don’t really do it too often, but I do miss the deeper kissing during sex or whatever.

    Post # 6
    1212 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012


    Ha! When my Fiance and I are having sex and he’s on top, sometimes we’re kissing and he’ll get distracted and just leave his face on mine. I hate that! When I told him, he laughed guiltily and said that he knew he was doing it but since I never complained he kept doing it!

    Post # 7
    5547 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Fiance and I both like it. πŸ™‚ I am also a lip-bitter. I think just easing into it is best. No one is going to like from no tounge to full on tonsil hockey all at once. 

    Post # 9
    2000 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    I am more into making out than he is, but we’ve been working on it lately. The thing that has helped the most is to tell him that NOTHING gets me in the mood better than making out. I just had to tell him straight out that I NEED french kissing to get turned on. It’s not really a skip-able step in the sexytimes process for me. πŸ˜‰

    Post # 10
    304 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Best way to get him to open up to it is get him to kiss you while you’re eating something yummy and try different flavours!
    Then it’s a yummy experience for the both of you and he might find it more exciting πŸ™‚

    I’m thinking sweet things like chocolate, ice cream etc. (not french fries, roast beef etc… but hey, whatever floats your boat πŸ˜‰ hehe)

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