- 3 months ago
I’m I’m going through a really hard time right now and I’m hoping To get some support and guidance here. I’ll try and make this short. I was just in a relationship for two years and my boyfriend broke it off 5 days ago.
It has been a pretty rocky relationship from the get-go to be honest with you. We would argue all the time about stupid things and he was pretty unstable when it came to overreacting and getting super Furious almost every time.
Not even not even a week before he broke up with me where you had gone look at Rings Twice. We also had started looking at apartments online and a couple weeks prior to that he told me he wanted to have a big talk about where we were heading. I wanted to get engaged before moving in and he wanted to move in and then get engaged. There were other things on our list that weren’t compatible so during that to our discussion we figured out what we were both willing to compromise to move forward.
Then last Wednesday he came over then last Wednesday he came over and we got into another argument. Basically Sports have ruled his life forever and during the two years that we were together this was always a problem. On Wednesday he told me he had decided to double up on the coaching that he does which is not a paid job which would mean we would see each other even less Then before which was already really bad. He knew by telling me that he was going to double it up that it was going to cause an argument and later admitted so.
The next the next day he texted me saying he had to think about things and we had to have a talk. This is something I had heard more times than I could count throughout the relationship with threats of breaking up every single time. He did break up with me a year ago but we reconciled within a couple of hours and agreed to keep trying. He has had numerous Partners before and his longest relationship was four years and mine was 10.
He told me he told me that he’s been unhappy for a long time and he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was still willing to try and work things out but he didn’t want to. He broke up over the phone which was incredibly disrespectful and said a lot of mean things that night.
Everything he said everything he said he was going to do he went back on. During the phone call he told me he already has everything he wants. His house is pool his game room. Every single thing he said he would do he ultimately lied about.
My my family and friends are happy that it’s over as they witnessed far too many arguments and him ignoring me For minimum a day after having a fight and overreacting to everything. So needless to say everyone is really happy about it right now except for me. I made a list of all the things that upset me that he said or did or ways that he was controlling and I’ve 66 things so far. With all of this being said I’m still heartbroken and really wish we could have worked things out.
My prior relationship my prior relationship like I mentioned was 10 years and I was engaged at that point so I am devastated Got another one hasn’t worked out. I’m 32 years old and thought I would have been married years ago before everything Went to hell with that relationship.
It kills me that we haven’t talked it kills me that we haven’t talked for five days and that I will never see or hear from this person ever again. my closest friend is away for a few weeks on vacation and the other acquaintances that I have here have not been supportive. I am feeling incredibly alone not to mention I lost my job for months ago due to large layoffs at my company. My entire world has been falling apart since then and now I have this breakup to deal with.
Any advice any advice or thoughts would be so greatly appreciated right now thank you 🙁 apologies for any typos I’ve been talking to my phone to type this out faster. There is so much more to the story but I think I’ve written enough to start.