(Closed) Friend Advice Please

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
196 posts
Blushing bee

I’m sorry sweetie! Losing close friends is tough. My former best friend stopped calling and texting me as much and over time I stopped trying, so I know a little how you’re feeling. I kept trying but after a while it was clear he wasn’t interested in spending as much time with me. I just let it go. It was sad. I messaged him a lot and tried calling, but slowly lost the will to keep trying when he was very rarely responding and brushed me off all the time. Chances are when she has the baby its going to get a little worse because her priorities will have shifted again. Hang in there! maybe its time to start some new friendships?

Post # 7
Member
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Unfortunately people grow apart and there’s really not much you can do short of communicating with her and telling her how you feel. I’m sorry. It’s hard to lose friends and grow apart from people. I wish I had some kind of answer for you but I don’t. 

Post # 8
Member
39 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am sorry to hear you are going through this…i would be sooo sad if my best acted like that.  Her Fiance is not a pleasant person either, but i have to say that he at least lets her have those girl times with me.  I would try to talk to her what’s going on….but try to take it easy on her since she is expecting and am sure her hormones are on the roof.  You know you are trying.  Sometimes people do grow apart.  Hang in there and good lcuk:))

Post # 9
Member
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Sorry to hear that your friendship has changed. Doesn’t sound like you can do much more. Maybe try to schedule a “girls date” a couple of times per month. If that doesn’t work, it may be time to reach out to some new women. Good luck!

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