(Closed) Friend disapproves of my relationship. Advice?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Well, first of all, I don’t think people brings things up without reason. Did your friend say what “needs” he felt weren’t being met? Is it possible he just has a thing for you and just thinks you could do better, kind of in a big brother way (although i get that’s obnoxious). But otherwise, I don’t think your Boyfriend or Best Friend should say anything because I don’t think it’ll solve anything besides creating confrontation. You have already told your friend how you feel about it and if he’s a good friend, he’ll respect it. I’m sure he struggled with whether or not to tell you. Is there something this friend knows about your BF?

Look i’ve been there. I have a good friend of mine who used to have a thing for me, but he was also like a big brother to me. He was very wary when i first started dating my now-DH and after awhile he told me he felt I could do better. But i truly felt it was only because he thought highly of me as a friend and for being a good person in general. I think I’d just let it slide. If you know your Boyfriend or Best Friend treats you well, that’s all that matters.

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