(Closed) Friend going braless around hubby

posted 4 years ago in Married Life
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

I sure the fuck would say something. 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I think that if it makes you uncomfortable than you should be honest with your friend and just tell her that, but just do it nicely!

Post # 4
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Helper bee

I would absolutely say something. I don’t care whose friend she is- mine or his, you don’t need to be blatantly encouraging anybody’s husband to look at your nipples. Not appropriate, would not happen in my house.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

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bzbride2277 :  I’d leave it alone, especially if it’s not unusual for her to go braless or if she was getting ready for bed. What are you going to do, demand she cover up in front of your husband or kick her out? I’m assuming he’s seen a nipple before in his life.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

Not all women want to wear bras all the time. If this is normal for her, and unless she’s actually making advances towards your husband, I’d leave it be. Breasts don’t have to be oversexualized.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Haha, I’d let it go.  I mean I understand why she’d want to go bralass, it feels much better.  First thing I want to do when I get home is take mine off.  I’m guessing she was getting ready for bed or something- or in her pjs, etc?  But nipples really don’t bother me, it’s just a nipple.  As long as she wasn’t blantantly hitting on him or asking him to come up to bed with her I’d just leave it alone.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

 

I think its weird but I wouldn’t say anything.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

They’re just nipples OP. Your husband has them too. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

I think it’s weird, too. If I’m over at a person’s house, I won’t take my bra off unless I have a heavy sweatshirt otherwise just, no. Would I say something? Eh probably not. I would probably ask DH if he noticed  – lol

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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bzbride2277 :  it is pretty weird. I go braless around people only if I have a sweatshirt on and literally would never know. If you could clearly tell I was braless I would feel really self conscious. Awkward but I probably wouldn’t say anything since they’re not like permanently at your house without a bra. I’d just leave it alone but still think it was weird

Post # 12
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Helper bee

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bzbride2277 :  Yes I would say something. That is very inappropriate and I’m surprised she wouldn’t know better. My Mom taught me as a child that when you’re around males whether they are related or unrelated, you make sure you wear a bra and dress decently in front of them. When you’re alone at home, then you can go braless.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’d say something. I don’t believe that I have any friends who wouldn’t know to dress appropriately around unrelated males (and especially someone’s husband and especially in their home). But if any visitor got a little too comfortable, I’d have no problem providing a kind reminder. My husband would do the same if one of his friends were lounging around shirtless or in his boxers.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

I personally find it more physically comfortable to wear a bra but for many that is not the case. But assuming I did like being braless I would be really angry if a friend came to me with a complaint like that. It would feel that she was implying I was being inappropriate or seductive towards her husband and I would be very angry with someone who thought that little if me. I mean, friendship ending potentially. If you really think I would make advances at your husband then we have no business being friends. Just trying to give you another perspective.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

If this happened in my house, I’d probably giggle about it with DH but not say anything to the friend.  She’s not doing anything WRONG but I personally wouldn’t walk around braless at someone else’s house.

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