I feel like Im reading a post from the 1930’s in this thread…it seriously has be shaking my head in disbelief…
Last time I checked, in all provinces and in (most? ) states, its completely LEGAL to even go outside with no bra, breasts showing, and omg, the dreaded auerolas!!!!
But heaven forbid t time, when you are hanging out in your nightclothes or closer to bed, heaven forbid the woman, much less a friend, not wear a bra! The audacity! Seriously, this has me shaking my head in shame at us women- have we really not come far at all to shame women for seeing a breast under a shirt? Would you really shame your friend for showing her breasts through her shirt? Do you have that little confidence in your husband, that she is going to entice your husband over her see through shirt? What about the beaches? do you “trust” him enough to go there or do you have to police his eyes and what he sees there as well- because you know, breasts hanging out and such.
My sister-in-law breastfeeds all the time, and where she hid a lot “in shame” she called it, for her 1st 2 babies, for her 3rd, she breastfeeds openly with her breasts right there! Should I tell her to “cover” up if heaven forbid, my husband sees? And my husband sees this all the time- Im not like, “cover your eyes dear husband, or you will never look at my boobs the same ever again!” And yes I know breastfeeding may be considering different than this scenario, but in essescence, in botj of this scenarops you can still see boobs, and you know what, its still okay for both! Imagine that!
Are you afraid your husband is going to suddenly jump on this woman or burst into flames for seeing her nipples through her shirt? My friends and I, both girls and guys, have had many ” sleepovers” going away camping and what not, and I’ve even seen a few of them naked( guys too, again, my eyes, my eyes! Shield me!)..After swimming camping, late at night, there was some breast showing under shirts and you know what…nothing happened! No one jumped each other over thoe outline of breasts in a shirt, no one burst into flames over seeing something that is natural anyways, my husband didnt demand we leave or I tell my friend she must “Cover up” or else my husband will surely be enticed by her breasts, because you know men- thats all they’re good for….urgh…
Seriously, this opressing of woman, and shaming them for things men can do with no shame is just ridicuolous.
This is 2016, not 1930.