(Closed) Friend going braless around hubby

posted 5 years ago in Married Life
Post # 196
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bzbride2277 :  as it clearly bothers you, then you should tell your friend it does. if she is really your friend, it wouldn’t bother her to adjust to your house rules.

Post # 197
6 posts

If you noticed your hubby checking her out, you might want to talk to him, otherwise I would not worry about it. I do not wear bras and have been around friends, family, co-workers and have rarely been told that I needed to put on a bra or something else.

Post # 198
198 posts
Blushing bee

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ladyvictoria :  But a dick and nipples aren’t even close to the same thing… The only comparison to women’s nipples would be men’s nipples. If you wouldn’t care if you could see a man’s through his shirt, why do you care if you see a woman’s?


Post # 199
189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I go braless all the time. I mean – obviously I wear a bra to work, but socially there are numerous occassions I don’t wear a bra. Fiance doesn’t have a problem with it at all…and quite frankly if any other woman was braless in front of my Fiance I wouldn’t care; if he made a point about staring at her though, I’d say something to HIM. 

I highly doubt your friend was trying to be a tramp or a hsband snatcher – she probably feels coomfortable with you and at your house, hence why she went braless.

I think sometimes, we as society are way too dirty minded – and then we wonder why people have such a filthy perspective on breastfeeding in public! 


Post # 200
7 posts
  • Wedding: April 2017

As a woman who never wears a bra, I would feel offended if a friend of mine told me I needed to wear a bra around their boyfriend/fiance/husband. I would perceive it as insecurity and feel insulted, sort of like “are you implying I’m being innapropriate around you and your husband? do you really think that low of me?”. 

We all have nipples, we should all be adults, it’s not a big deal. (in my opinion)

Post # 201
4259 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Manhattan, NY

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teddybears :  What you find acceptable doesn’t have to align with what I do. You can have all of the nipple and penis imprints showing around your home if you so choose. That would not fly in my household. Let’s not pretend that women and men’s nipples get the same treatment because they don’t. A shirtless man’s nipples won’t be censored on TV but woman’s will. I guess I’m fortunate to have friends that wouldn’t put me in the same situation as the OP in the first place.  

Post # 202
3083 posts
Sugar bee

I would never wear a bra if I didn’t have to LOL. I couldn’t care less if Anyone wanted to go braless around Fiance. I would however  if I could actually see her nipple… 


I would probably just say “her your shirts a little see through” and they would most likely change? I’m sure she isn’t doing it on purpose so not a big deal. 

Post # 203
127 posts
Blushing bee

I don’t wear a bra in general, at most they are bralettes when I go to work. I wouldn’t dream of demanding a friend wear a bra around my BF, and my friends have never asked me to. She’s an adult, she gets to choose what she wears. You’re not her mother. If you have an issue with your SO looking, that’s his fault, not hers. 

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