(Closed) friend is staying with me…but spending all her time with her new love interest

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Yeah that’s really annoying.  I would tell her how you are feeling.  Explain to her that you know she’s excited about her new relationship but that you were really looking forward to spending some girl time with her.  Since she sees her Boyfriend or Best Friend when she’s in her city anyway I would think she would understand.  If she still insists on being around him all day, I would probably opt to go to work for the rest of the week rather than waste vacation days.. and just spend the evenings with her.

Post # 5
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1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I would go in to work the rest of the week and salvage those days for use later in the year—

Post # 7
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2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That sucks!

I wouldn’t confront her necessarily – but go back to work and if she asks why make sure she knows it is because she made it clear she would rather spend time with the new boyfriend than you.

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