- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2020
hi, a mutual friend let slip my boyfriends plans to propose but i still don’t believe it!
we’ve been together for three years but he has been very clear and extremely adamant from the beginning that he never wants to get married or have kids, two things he knows i want but i accepted his views and being only 21 i decided i had time to wait and make my own decisions about it later.
however in recent weeks hes been joking about not getting married more which in the past we’ve fallen out about because i told him not to joke about it if its not going to happen but now he just stares at me instead of reacting to it.
at the weekend i found out hes asked a mutual friend for advice on how to propose and for them to go help him pick a ring and get my ring size only they couldn’t contain themselves and told me, hes also said that he would consider a family now hes thinking about his future (hes 31) i still cant believe it though after three years of hearing he never wants to marry! Have i pushed him into a decision by wanting it and us making jokes or has he just had a change of mind and he really wants? Even though I’ve been told how it will happen and that its soon i still cant believe it and its playing on my mind since!