(Closed) friend or faux??

posted 9 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
365 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

That’s very passive aggressive – totally not cool in my book. 

I would def sit down with her and express your concerns joking or not that was a pretty mean thing to say.  A bridesmaid is there to support you and help you out not make you stress out more. 

Post # 4
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Again, weddings bring out the worst in some.  There’s certainly a hint of jelously coming off her.  I don’t know how you’ve stayed so patient because I would have gotten rid of her in a snap.

It’s your wedding and if she has such a problem with so many details, tell her off.  She has no right to say those things to you and if she can’t understand your anger, then she’s an absolute lost cause.  I started to think that maybe it’s a case of her not knowing any better because she probably hasn’t been involved in wedding planning but I don’t think that’s the case here at all.  Anyone who says I just want to come to see the wedding fall flat has major issues.

I say confront her now and let her know these statements will not be tolerated.

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