(Closed) Friend stress over MY wedding! – Long post sorry :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ChrissieW1980:  I’m going to be blunt. Your friend is beyond toxic and emotionally abusive. No true friend would behave this way. Let her continue to ignore her but please communicate with her and neither she nor her familiy are welcomed to the wedding. On the day of, please have a hostess with a guest list ready.

Post # 4
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3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Get a mutual friend (MOH?) to explain that weddings are for the bride & grooms family & not random relatives of others to join.  That it’s costly and if everyone brought their families it’d take years to pay off the loans + you wouldn’t get to see the people you know.

Honestly, now that I write that…she’s just so out of line here that I don’t see it’s even worthwhile trying to reason with her.

Post # 6
Member
3305 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t budge on this. She is nuts and you shouldn’t even entertain this.

Post # 8
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4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

@kay01:  EXACTLY: ...weddings are for the bride & grooms family & not random relatives of others to join…she’s just so out of line here that I don’t see it’s even worthwhile trying to reason with her.  

OP-I don’t except this friendship has much of a future, unfortunately. Relationships of any kind shouldn’t be emotional roller coasters- it’s okay to get off the ride!

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