- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I have a friend who is extremely selfish and I think in a way maybe a tad jealous of my forthcoming nuptuals…… Since I got engaged about 1.5 years ago and been planning my wedding my friend has turned into a complete nightmare..
She has always been a little demanding all the time I have known her and since I got with my Fiance she has been a little funny, not wanting to get to know him accusing me of not making time for her and stuff which I have just obviously not every weekend and week like I used to!
So fast forward to the engagement she didn’t seem very happy and didn’t even congratulate us, and just ignored my Fiance totally! When I had a smile beaming she just gave me a sarcastic half smile and walked off…..
Anyway so since Christmas I have seen her 3 times despite trying to organise stuff she has just been ignoring me, then we finally went out and it was a nice girly catch up, then we had a falling out AGAIN becasue she wanted her whole family, so her siblings who are all adults now and mum and dad, to come to my wedding and although I know them all we just don’t have the budget as we both have big families and have to accomodate them first! She lost it telling me that she don’t want them treated like that and she went back to ignoring me again telling me I am out of order promising things I cannot keep and that I am a poor friend…… Even though I do not recall a conversation about inviting her whole family only her parents!
So she came round and we met up again after she had gone on holiday and calmed down, so I asked her if her parents were coming and if they were bringing her neice as we had discussed that it would be nice for her to come and play with the other children as she knows them, she lost it again saying I am out of order and that she wants her sister there and she can’t believe I won’t invite her!! And has now gone back to ignoring me again…… I know she is annoyed but we don’t have the budget to add another 3 adults to the meal as it’s quite pricy and the budget was set for 2 adults and a child!
I just can’t deal with it anymore and really feel like telling her she isn’t welcome anymore as all my stress Ive had has been caused by her……….. For someone who don’t really have anytime for my Fiance and wasn’t happy about our engagement I think it’s pretty poor to want us to accomomdate her whole family for the day! Thing is if I cut her out then it will cause problems with my Maid/Matron of Honor as we are all really good friends and they used to live together so are perhaps closer than I am to them!!
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh just want to give her a piece of my mind but don’t want to casue the problems!!