(Closed) Friend took me out of her wedding…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I actually think that you are lucky.  She showed you that this is not going to be a life long friendship.  As we get older, friendships fade and people find themselves going in different directions.  This sounds like you two were not on the same path so it is better to let this friendship fade now rather make it dramatic down the line.  I am sorry she put you in that position, but it may work out in the long run for the both of you.

Post # 4
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999 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think it’s best that you are both guests at each others wedding.

Post # 5
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193 posts
Blushing bee

@blueeyedbride88: I dont understand how a wedding can make ppl go so crazy. This is one day in her life, yes its a major day but is it really so important to lose friendships over? Craziness. I think you are lucky to be out of the wedding party if she is already acting this way. I think when you start to question is your friendship worth saving then you already have the answer. A friendship that is worth saving you dont usually question, you keep fighting for it no matter what.

Sorry you have gone through this.

Post # 6
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4771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ask her to reemburse you for the dress, or better yet wear it to her wedding as a guest. 

I can’t see you guys staying friends after the wedding crap is over.  Seems like they wanted to kick you out but “let you decide”  good for you for not making it easier on her. 

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