(Closed) Friend un-invited me to his wedding , ” I’m Invited to your’s right?”

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you still invite them? ( read post)
    Yea, Forgive and forget : (4 votes)
    2 %
    HELL, NO. : (114 votes)
    64 %
    Yea, but olny if i got an apology : (5 votes)
    3 %
    Why is this even an issue? they Uninvited you AFTER you RSVP ... the rest is just extra...so no. : (38 votes)
    21 %
    Screw them. They all suck. : (18 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I can probably figure out where this going but…

    I wouldnt invite them to your wedding. Honestly his new wife sounds like shes got him tightly by the balls and before he can hurt your feelings anymore, I would just let the friendship with him die. Mostly because he will ALWAYS pick her over you, and its not worth having that sort of drama. So in short, no I definately would NOT invite him/his new wife to the wedding. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    3166 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @MsNarwhal: OMG ME TOO! PINS & NEEDLES!

    Post # 6
    Member
    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    If your story ends with what the title of this thread is, I would say HECK NO!! Clearly he is not a good friend! He picked the crazy guy over you. NOT COOL. Ever heard of the line ‘With friends like these, who needs enemies?”.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @elliestan: Oh jeez, this is just like a cliffhanger on a soap opera!! I need to know!!

    Post # 9
    Member
    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @imalittlebirdie: Ill repeat…DO NOT invite them. They are not worth your time and they lied to you. I would move on, honestly his new wife sounds like a bitch and he acts like a small child. NOT. Worth. Your. Time. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    726 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    wheres the rest?? ahh lol

    Post # 12
    Member
    3166 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    okay, so i 100% agree with your Fiance. it’s not about them uninviting you, it’s about 1) them lying to you (especially A since he’s like family) and 2) A putting your EX before you. they should have uninvited him, HE was the problem and they are just as immature as he is for giving into his childish demand. you reap what you sow.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1008 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    Ugh….. no. 

    Unless you really really want him there. If it will make you happy to see his face than maybe be the bigger person but if you don’t care to see him there than NO. 

    I cant imagine EVER uninviting someone for any reason, RUDE.

    Post # 14
    Member
    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @imalittlebirdie: He clearly must have seen he was at least a little bit pyscho by his reaction to hearing you were invited. Demanding another guest is uninvited? So wrong. His Fiance (and by extension, him) lying to you? Even worse.

     

    Post # 16
    Member
    9482 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I wouldn’t extend the invitation.

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