- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2016
Ok, I was talking to a friend of mine from highschool. The back story : He and I were really close friends. Mom mostly adopted him, we threw birthdays for him and such (he had a bad home life) Me and his girlfrind did not get along. Mostly because she cheated on him. SEVERAL times. Once while I was in the same house ( it was a player’s cast party and she hooked up with one of the tech guys), I told A, and she lost her mind on me. Fast forward 5 years (she and I became freindly again ) and they are engaged and I get an invite, with a +1 for Fiance.
I call up and RSVP, and then mabey a week before the wedding i get a FB message from A’s Fiance uninviting me. She said that there were finanical reasons and she did not realize A had invited me, and she was going over the the list and realzied she had too many people and their budget could not cover it.
I told her I understood and that those things were not cheap ( understatement), and wished them the best. My feelings were hurt and i definity moped for a few days,but i understood.
THEN, i find out from a friend ( who actually crashed the wedding, he was never invited anyway) that i was uninvited because my EX ( the psycho, cheating abursive one) found out that I was attending and flipped shit and told HER that either i did not come or he would not. ( Mark that we broke up 3 years ago, mostly peacilbly, dispite him comming over the next day and chaseing me though the house before now Fiance got there to kick him out… * there is another story there) I called up A and asked him about it and he said “yea that is true, we knew you would not cause a problem, but we were not sure about him, so we thought it would be better to just uninvite you.”
Well, let me tell you Bees, that royaly hurt my feelings. It told me where I stood in my friendship with this guy.
So I get a FB pm from A today and he tells me hes excited to come to my wedding!,and ” I am invited right”
I was like “excuse me?”
What i wrote back was that I havent made the list yet so its still in the process.
I tell Fiance and he tells Me ” hell no they are not invited! I saw how upset that whole deal made you, and I don’t want them there.”
I can’t help feel that two wrongs don’t make a right, but my feelings are still hurt and I am a little bit angry … not that i was uninvited but that they lied to me, and then have the balls to ask to come….