(Closed) Friend upset after wedding because she wasn't MOH

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
2803 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

She needs to out her big girl panties on and grow up.  Sounds like you made a perfectly reasonable decision (which is entirely yours to make) and I would suspect she will eventually realise she’s behaving like a child and get over it.  I would continue as normal in your relationship with her.

Post # 3
2083 posts
Buzzing bee

She’s being selfish and dramatic. 

I would say you’re sorry her feelings were hurt, but that you chose the way you did to avoid that, and how would have the other girls in your group have felt if you chose her over them?

If she can’t forgive you over this silly thing, what kind of friend is she anyway?

Post # 4
1754 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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sunelake27:  Uhhhhhh… whaaaaat?

Your wedding is long over, you explained yourself to her… I say tell her “I’m sorry if you feel that way, I’ll give you some time by yourself” and then don’t contact her.

If for whatever reason you still want to be friends, then I hope she comes to her senses and apologizes.  Otherwise, good riddance.

Post # 5
433 posts
Helper bee

That sucks. This would confirm for me that I made the right choice in not selecting her. 

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