(Closed) friend who is getting married that im probley not invited to

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9673 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Often not all friends are invited to weddings, but she is still your friend if you keep in regular contact.

Post # 4
207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I don’t think you need to classify her as a specific type of friend.

The two of you sound like you get on very well and are friends. If you don’t get invited to her wedding it would be because she has had to cull people out because of budget/venue space etc. You shouldn’t take offence to it.

Anyway, you should cross that bridge when you come to it, she hasn’t sent out her invites yet right?

Post # 5
3229 posts
Sugar bee

I was the Maid/Matron of Honor and only Bridesmaid or Best Man for my best friend and I am not inviting her to my wedding only because we were very specific about our guest list – it is family only. There could be some circumstances that you don’t know of keeping her from inviting you. I, of course, told my friend why she wasn’t invited and she was fine with it.

Post # 6
307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I feel guilty because a lot of people I consider friends are not going to be able to come to my wedding, purely because they will not fit. I am having to stay under 60 people and finding it nearly impossible!

Because most of my friends would have to travel I’m not prepared to only offer them an evening invitation either. 

I would say it really depends on how big a wedding your friend is having! If she invites 300+ people but not you then I would say you are probably just ‘acquaintences’ 

Only you know how close you are really

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