Post # 1
I have a friend who I think is a good friend ie we hung out three to four time including my visits when i moved away. i mean three to four times in the past four years. we keep in touch via texting and stuff once a month but anyways if she dosent invite me to her wedding should I consider her a good and close friend depending on the case, or a regular friend ie keep in touch with her but not ask her to make time for me or not a friend at all. just a aquaince?
Post # 3
Often not all friends are invited to weddings, but she is still your friend if you keep in regular contact.
Post # 4
I don’t think you need to classify her as a specific type of friend.
The two of you sound like you get on very well and are friends. If you don’t get invited to her wedding it would be because she has had to cull people out because of budget/venue space etc. You shouldn’t take offence to it.
Anyway, you should cross that bridge when you come to it, she hasn’t sent out her invites yet right?
Post # 5
I was the Maid/Matron of Honor and only Bridesmaid or Best Man for my best friend and I am not inviting her to my wedding only because we were very specific about our guest list – it is family only. There could be some circumstances that you don’t know of keeping her from inviting you. I, of course, told my friend why she wasn’t invited and she was fine with it.
Post # 6
I feel guilty because a lot of people I consider friends are not going to be able to come to my wedding, purely because they will not fit. I am having to stay under 60 people and finding it nearly impossible!
Because most of my friends would have to travel I’m not prepared to only offer them an evening invitation either.
I would say it really depends on how big a wedding your friend is having! If she invites 300+ people but not you then I would say you are probably just ‘acquaintences’
Only you know how close you are really