(Closed) "Friend"/Best Man's wife skipped my shower- MAD

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

What is a stuck up city??

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

apparently a city that is generally known for its people being stuck up?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

This actually did happen to me by my FI’s sister.  

She RSVP’d yes to my shower and never showed up.  No “I’m sorry,” no explanation, nothing.  She later told his other sister that she decided to go to burlesque practice instead.

I am still SUPER bitter about it.  If you can’t come, fine. Like you said though, why lie?

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Did you ever bother to ask what happened? Did it occur to you that something unavoidable came up, or there was an illness or emergency?

And btw, not everyone who lives in a big house or has money is stuck up or thinks they are better than anyone and your statment that says this is INCREDIBLY offensive, derogatory and small minded. Perhaps this attitude is why she skipped the shower.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

Maybe an emergency happened? Have you tried to call her to see what happened?

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Maybe something came up? Did anybody else RSVP yes and then not come?

Be prepared bc there are usually a few no shows at the actual wedding and all he anger and stress you seem to have ab it is not healthy.

Also, I’m curious- what city is she from?

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I still would have called her to see what happened? Could she have forgotten? Did you give her a formal invite?

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If I were you, I would have been upset as well. If you havn’t heard from her, I would call her and just ask what happened. Maybe there is a good explaination. I tend to get upset over being blown off as well and I know a few occasions which I did and it turned out that something important came up. Though if she has yet to contact you about it, she probably just blew it off.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@coffeegal85: 4square told you the whole story? Social media always tells the truth? Seriously??? You havent even spoken to her, there may be an explanation. I’m far more concerned about the fact you are presumptutous, hostile and judgemental. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Maybe she didn’t realize there was a cost per person. I would assume I would be paying for my own plate at a restaurant. She was probably hanging out with her family and decided she wanted to spend more time with them, she probably assumed it wasn’t a big deal and she wouldn’t be missed. I don’t think this a huge deal, I would be offended if it was a family member.

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