- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
1.5 years before my actual wedding date, I asked 3 of my friends to sing at my wedding ceremony. They all agreed. I met these friends through work; and we were supposed to go on a trip this year for work. However, that trip fell through and there are plans "up in the air" about going next year. Unfortunately, this trip might coincide with my wedding. Obviously, I would not be able to go. However, these friends would feel pressured to go, as well as pressured (I hope!) to stay for my wedding.
I am not sure how I should bring this up to them. My wedding is a year from now, but I would like to know whether they are still going to be performing or not. Should I even mention the "trip"? Nothing has been booked or planned, I am only assuming it will coincide with my wedding because it would have if my wedding was this year. Or should I just casually ask them if they are still interested in singing?
Thanks for your help!