(Closed) Friend's bridesmaids flaked on Bachelorette – WWYD?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would ask her what she wants to do…and do it!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s not weird. I think she would appreciate it.

 

TOTALLY do it(:

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh no , that is so sad, yes for sure do something for her, every girl deserves a party if she wants one! your a really good friend!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@CanAmBride:  I think it’s a lovely idea.  Maybe you can do a mani/pedi before dinner or something so there is some ‘occasion’ to it.  Poor girl…flaky friends are the worst. 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Definitely ask her – I’m sure that will mean alot to her!! 

Do you all also have more mutual friends – like other guy’s girlfriends you hang out with, if so you can invite them along too! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@CanAmBride:  oh definitely thatd be lovely. im sure she’d appreciate it

it sucks her friends flaked on her, id be really disappointed

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@CanAmBride:  I wouldn’t invite the BMs. They had their chance to plan a party for her and if I were the bride I would rather have a nice, relaxing evening than have to deal with Bridesmaid or Best Man drama!

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think that seems like a really nice idea – I’m sure she’d love it!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@CanAmBride:  i wouldnt want to but i probably would. but itd be a big problem if they flake again. once is bad, two is really hurtful. and shed probably be disappointed all night

so ive changed my mind. dont invite them!

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would plan a little something for her and not invite the BM’s. I would invite some of your good friends who you think would make nice new friends for her.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@CanAmBride:   That’s sweet of you.  You should go for it (without the bm’s)!  Maybe you’ll gain a new friend.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That’s a sweet idea! I’d go for it and leave the BMs out that way that don’t feel awkward (even though its their fault they flaked, but it’ll save you drama). Thats so nice of you! 🙂

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

+1 to yes do it! In fact my bachelorette happened that way, as far as I can tell. They realised the bachelor party was that night, so they put something together for me at short notice.

Don’t bother with the BMs, keep it to people you know. If you know any other girls whose partners are going to the bachelor party you could invite them too.

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