(Closed) Friends inviting other friends (WTF!)

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Did she know that the other guests weren’t invited?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

If she didn’t run the shower guest list by you, then I feel lit is her responsibility to let these girls know that they won’t be invited to the wedding but are welcome at the shower. Is it a formal shower (Your wedding is a year out, so I wasn’t sure if it was more of a ‘celebrate the bride’ engagement party), either way, if you weren’t planning to invite them and the only reason you would is because of this shower, then really that’s ridiculous. I’d talk to the Bridesmaid or Best Man and let her know the situation, in detail, tell her you will give her a list of guests and for her to run any sort of shower guest list by you.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Wow!  I’m surprised that the shower is being planned already since you’re not getting married till 2010. 

 Maybe your Bridesmaid or Best Man wasn’t aware, buit I think once you explain that to her, she’ll understand.  I made sure to tell members of my family not to invite people to the shower or mention the wedding only because I know they would start inviting people left and right.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

My best friend’s family was a last minute add on. I didn’t mind so much except one of her sisters though it was ok to bring a guest. I was a little miffed but oh well. thank goodness the site did not charge us!

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