(Closed) Friends that bum me out. friday night vent

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Rather than take her comments so negatively, is it possible for you to realize that she misses you?

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

She probably misses you? Maybe she misses the good old days. At least all your friends didn’t just stop talking to you when you paired up.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think she misses you too , and maybe you can arrange a day that you guys can still go out and party together . I dont think you are ever too old to get out and have some drunken fun IMO 

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@Miss. Meeps: Sometimes (even though it’s not fair or rational) friends get upset when they see other friends moving forward in life, towards marriage or kids or home ownership. Not because they don’t want you to move forward, but because they feel like they are being left behind. I sometimes look at what my friends are doing and think “I wish I was at that point in my life” or “I wish I had the money to buy a house” etc. It can hit a nerve if we see people we were once on an even playing field with moving on or becoming more stable in their life maybe than we are. I think what your friend really needs to hear is “Hey, things may be changing but your friendship is still very important to me.”

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