(Closed) Friendship over? Advice

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@bluebelle22: I will be very honest with you…I had the almost EXACT same situation with a set of friends that are twins and we are no longer friends today because of their selfish behaviors.

Everything was about them. Every conversation, every Saturday lunch is where they chose, when we talked is when they had time. It took me getting a noncancerous adenoma prohibiting me from flying to one of their weddings to realize what terrible friends I had. They never called to check on me or ask about my doctor appointments. When I didn’t make the wedding in Mexico, I was told by another good friend that one of them had said that my tumor wasn’t that big of a deal and I was a bad friend for not boarding a plane to Mexico against my doctor’s wishes.

I am not saying “Heather” is that bad of a friend (like mine were)…I am saying that selfish people are a waste of time and can really let you down when you need them. I cut the twins from my life 6 months ago and have never felt better. I don’t have to listen to either of them carry on and on and on about their drama and feeling slighted that they couldn’t pause to ask about mine.

((HUGS))…I hope you do what is best for your friendship and handle it the way that fits you best.

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