(Closed) From a Bridesmaid, shoe advice!!! Is this unreasonable?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yikes.  That is a lot of money to shell out on a dress, let alone the rest of it.  I would of never been able to ask that of my BM’s.  Even if they could afford it, I just don’t feel like my wedding should be a huge expense.  I chose their dress based on 1. the cost and 2. the color.  If I were you, I’d say that she has to nix either the hair/make-up or the shoes.  I can’t imagine mandating someone to get their hair and make-up done anyway!  Good luck.

Post # 18
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2702 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@bee2be: i can’t believe that bride… i felt awful about my bm’s paying for their $200 gowns… i told them to wear whatever shoes they had (long dresses, their shoes are barely going to be seen!), and i am paying for their hair and they are doing their own make-up.

Post # 19
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2640 posts
Sugar bee

Wow, that bride is out of line on a few levels.  And the worst part is she doesn’t seem to care about what works for her Bms.    So sorry.

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