(Closed) frumpy dresses?

posted 6 years ago in 40 Something
Post # 3
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1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I will be 44 by the time we are married and the way I see it is buy a dress that you love in whatever style and whatever colour that you love. Try some on if you’re not sure and you will fall for one that not only feels great but looks great too! Just FYI this is the dress I’m having made…it’s my favorite colour and I know the style looks great on me…can’t wait until it’s done even if I have to wait to wear it!

Post # 5
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237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Try on some of the dresses that you mentioned and see how you feel. I went with Claire Pettibone (but am on the younger side), but have seen several pictures if older (30s and 40s) women wearing her dresses and looking absolutely gorgeous. I think it really depends on which dress, and more importantly, how you feel in it. If you feel good that confidence will really radiate…it made a huge difference when I was trying on gowns!

 

The same is true of trying on gowns with boning–if ithey give you the shape you like then that comfort alone may be worth it. Keep us posted on the search and good luck!

 

Also, congrats 🙂

Post # 6
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8394 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m 28 and the flowy dresses looked awful on me so I don’t think there’s an age limit, lol. Just go with what you feel beautiful in. I definitely needed some boning/support to look my best.

Post # 7
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1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am wearing a Nataya dress, with a Victorian tea hat and victorian lace boots. I will be 55 the day after the wedding!

 

 

Post # 8
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284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was dress shopping at 47 too. You really do need to try the various shapes on – some I thought would be flattering on me made me look pretty dumpy and some others that I got talked into trying looked amazing on. I love flowy ones too but ended up with a snug ruched a-line! Have fun shopping and post the one you say YES to!

Post # 9
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4419 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I don’t think you have to worry about it.  Wear what you feel the most beautiful in…  I know when we get to our age, we start worrying about whether we’re dressing too young for our age, but wedding dresses are the exception to that…

This is what I wore when I got married, and I was 45 and 30 pounds over-weight.

Post # 12
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944 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’ll be 54 when my day comes and yes, I too had major dress anxiety. But, I ended up buying something that I felt like a “bride” in, and that’s what matters. I wish I was thinner, but I’m not and that’s reality. See below:

Post # 13
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803 posts
Busy bee

I think that Claire Pettibone dresses are fine on a pear shape, and as long as you wear shapewear under the dress, you should be fine (some of the fabric she uses tends to cling to curves)

Post # 14
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1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Try on alot of different dresses,  you may think you want something… Like i was SURE THIS was the dress I wanted, it was my dream dress (I’m 42 but will be 43 at the time of our Vow Renewal)  So this was my dream dress…  you can tell it was a MAJOR EPIC FAILURE…  Juliette 3091.  Turns out, I preferred something else, which is the second photo!  That is 2be Kathy Ireland

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