(Closed) FRUSTRATED!!!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i have had those moments too, so i totally understand and its normal (i think?!).  one thing i learned (partly from weddingbee) is that no one cares about your wedding as much as you do, but that OKAY!  i didnt have as much excitement from people i had hoped/thought i would get.  i had their excitement when i got engaged, which was nice.  but i had those moments of telling people my vision/ideas and them giving me funny looks and basically making feel i was an idiot.  so to deal, and i think you need to do the same, is just focus on what you want, don’t even run your ideas by other people that you  know – thats what weddingbee is for!

also, take some breaks from wedding planning. you said you are three months out, but you are actually four! (i am three).  you have time to take a weekend where you don;t think or say anything about the wedding.  and also remember, that all these little things that stress you out are supposed to be fun!  no need to get upset over colors and flowers.  keep the big picture always in the front of your mind – you are marrying your FI! that is ALL that will be important for the rest of your life starting the day after your wedding,

another thing i focus on when i get stressed is this: i know that ON my actual wedding day, all these little details just will NOT be as important as they seem now!  like when i am walking down the aisle, will i REALLY be thinking about whether the chairs had purple ties or chair covers?  or whether there flower pots at the base of the arch???  i don’t think so!

Post # 6
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

sometimes it is good to close your planner and do something non wedding related. I think you can use a night relaxing instead.

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