(Closed) Frustrated!!! :(

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
Member
5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

We all need to vent! *Hugs* 

Honestly, I think we’re all really different. The one thing all the Bees have in common is that they’re creative and actively seeking ideas and advice. 

I wouldn’t like the Bee nearly as much if we were all the same. If your wedding makes you happy, it’s not weird. 🙂 

Post # 4
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I know how you feel!  I didn’t have any bridesmaid help either.  And whatever decisions you like, we will like it!  Everyone likes different things and that’s what makes it so great here!

Post # 5
Member
3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh Im so sorry you feel that way! I try to keep on top of weddingbee. But im making a special note to look out for your posts. I am really sure your wedding is going to be special and Its good to have a differant cookie cutter in the pile!

Have you looked at sites like offbeatbride.com?

Anyway good that you were able to raise the issue!

 

Post # 6
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t know if people aren’t commenting because of your ideas, sometimes I don’t click a link if the title doesn’t interest me or you could be posting at times when people aren’t online so the post gets lost in the shuffle.  I will try to keep an eye out for your posts!

Post # 7
Member
5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Posts get lost really quickly on here when it’s busy, too. I know the other day I started a thread that was pretty specific, and didn’t get any responses. But other threads I’ve started have gone to 3 or 4 pages easily. Just depends on who’s on and how relatable your topic is. 

Post # 8
Member
74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yeah, I’m a little different too.  This is a second wedding for me.  We have decided to have a little-tiny wedding…like less than 25 guests total, and it’s going to be very simple, and very inexpensive.  We’re getting married in a field, where we are planning to build our house in a few years, no wedding party, no first dance, not even a wedding cake…just saying our vows and it’s done. 

Don’t be discouraged.  We are all different, have different ideas, different likes and dislikes, and different budgets.  That doesn’t make any wedding more grand than any other.  Each of us are on our own journey, and they are all unique and special.

Chin up!  Share your ideas on here, give us all some input, some of us may be plannning the kind of things that you are, and maybe we can bounce stuff off of one another! 

Post # 9
Member
2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

(((((hugs)))))  I am so sorry you feel this way. I do have to say I agree with you re: your thoughts surrounding WB. When I discovered this site I was blown away. I knew it was for me yet I didn’t know how to become a part of it. I thought it was an “invite” only type wedding blog. While it is to a certain extent – it isn’t totally 100% and because of that after browsing for a while I became a ‘threader’ heeheehee

DO NOT get discouraged.  Skies the limit, Girl. The most wonderful thing about WB is that it opens our eyes and exposes us to ALL types of weddings. We come into this unsure of so many things and I am confident in saying that I am sure every night all of us go to sleep feeling some bit of inspiration stemming from WB. 

Keep sharing – don’t allow this bump to turn you around – go through it and continue your journey with us – its too much fun on here – plus we’ll miss ya Wink

 

Post # 10
Member
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I am completely obsessed with WB since I stumbled on it too! I first stalked it of course for a couple of weeks then decided to start becoming part of the discussion. I love it because ther are so many different backgrounds on here and you can pretty much get an opinion on anything you might be concerned about or some girl power if you are feeling down! Dont get discouraged keep on threading!

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