(Closed) Frustrated

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I haven’t, but maybe he just got really, really nervous!  Do you know if he had the chance to buy the ring yet?  Maybe it’s not ready from the jewelers…

Post # 5
4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh boy!  Well, could he have been fibbing?  Totally possible.  If not, I am sure he will pick it up with his next check.  I’d be happy a non-marrying type is deciding to get married!  That is exciting!

Post # 6
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If he has been talking about it I’m sure it’s coming soon. He probably just wants to make sure it is a surprise. Proposing is a lot of pressure on a guy and I’m sure he just wants to make sure it is perfect for you! Try to be patient, it will come soon!

Post # 7
15963 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I understand how that’s frustrating for you. I’m sorry, hun. I’m hoping he’s just trying to throw you off so that the proposal is still a surprise. It’s also possible that he just wanted to get this other financial thing taken care of so he could really focus on getting you the ring that you want.

Post # 9
438 posts
Helper bee

I feel your pain!

I am waiting until the ring for it to be official, it’s been over a year now and no one knows!haha!

But it isn’t my SOs fault he can’t afford the ring he wants to get me atm because he is out of work due to an injury so money is real tight, but I don’t mind waitng he’s worth it :]

…. but it is nice to rant sometimes haha!

Post # 10
102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yes! We’ve been talking for 3 months now, and I’m very impatient about everything and have never been one to wait when I know I want something. And when we first started talking about it, he had said “If I knew what kind of ring you wanted, I’d propose right now!”. So of course I got all jazzed up about it. It’s turned into a money thing. The difference is he doesn’t have a problem telling other people about it, which is kind of bumming me out. He’s kind of already let it slip to his family, and a few of his friends. But all you can do is wait! I’m sure it’s coming very soon for you, though.

Post # 11
4654 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Can you talk to him about it and ask if his time line has changed?

Post # 12
2050 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@lilsweetie:  Agree with that statement.

My current Fiance told me that he used to tell him mom that he never wanted to get married or have kids. 

Give him some time to sort it out.  🙂

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