(Closed) Frustrated and annoyed waiting for the ring/proposal

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

So in a couple of weeks, you have started talking about getting married and buying a ring, having said ring custom made (that was fast…) and him asking your parents for permission. I admit, I don’t get why men hang on to the ring for months and months but in this case it has been a few weeks, give the guy a break and let him propose to you when he wants. If he is an amazing guy then I am sure he is worth being a little bit patient for…

Post # 4
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296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Since you know he has the ring it makes every day seem like a week!  Maybe you can make some subtle hints about not wanting anything special for your birthday or just a quiet night in.  Then if he was planning something special he will try and plan it for another night?  Good luck!

Post # 5
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yea waiting sucks I hear ya!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would let him do it his way. My So has emphasized how imporant it is to him to do it his way because once you are engaged, it’s all about what the woman wants (for the most part). This is the one thing your SO can plan all on his own and do it his way!

Let him have this one

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@Ovalgem613 – I feel your frustration. My SO bought the ring in my presence in late January, and all he’ll say is that it’s not going to happen ‘any time soon’. He did say that he wants to see how his next set of classes go, but that’s like, December. Forever!

Good luck and I hope it works out sooner for you than it appears to be for me.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Ovalgem613:  Let him do it how he wants. At least you know he has the ring! I’d give my right arm to have the kind of intel.

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