(Closed) Frustrated by a Bridesmaid…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

It’s so stressful dealing with bridesmaids sometimes!  Though I have to admit that I probably would have been the spacey bride in this situation…  And I might stop mentioning all my details to her so she doesn’t copy everything and has to come up with some ideas of her own.

Post # 4
Member
440 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Aw, I know all about Bridesmaid or Best Man frustration! Isn’t it a bit early to have to give all your info for the dress?I had given all the info my BM’s needed for their dresses back in January but they waited until the last minute (last week & last month) to actually order it.

After I kept having to deal with my BM’s, I decided I didn’t really care anymore because the wedding isn’t about them or how they look, it’s about my Fiance and I & that’s all that really matters. So all the drama that they keep bringing, I just shrug it off now, I have way more things to worry about than that at 3 weeks till the wedding 😛

I hope everything gets better for you& your Bridesmaid or Best Man. It’s always good to vent on the Bee boards 🙂

Post # 6
Member
287 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m not sure where you are getting your bridesmaid dress, but some shops allow you to put only a certain amount down, and then pay the rest either over time or when you pick it up.  Maybe that will help you out! It’s worth asking! =)

Post # 8
Member
987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

If she’s slow, let it be her problem and not yours.  Be flattered she likes your ideas and not nasty.  It’s an expensive time for you but you knew her dresses would eventually have to be paid for so you should’ve put some aside.  If you need a little more time though, just ask her.

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