- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
Ok, I am getting married for the second time on valentines day 2014. My first marrage was to my high school sweetheart, we got married when I was pregnant at the city hall. I didn’t have a shower,no reception, and not even a dress it was just a few close friends and our parents at the city hall. So this time around I am 33 and I want everything. Is that wrong of me? We are plannning a Catholic Church wedding and reception to follow which we and his mom are paying for. My mom already told me your 30 and its your second wedding so your on your own. So we plan to cover the reherasal dinner as well and have asked nothing of my mom. So now my dilemma is my sister felt like she had to over the bridal shower plans because she felt like Maid/Matron of Honor wasn’t going to do it. Well now my sister is Beyound overwhelmed and just wants to cancel my shower all togeher. Now I have to ssy I am not expecting anything big and lavoush! It was suppose to be a wine tasting shower at her house with all 4 of them bringing wine and food for the guest. I even gave her a gift card I got to order the invites and I already bought the favors for everyone. So I guess I am just really hurt and let down that she just wants to call it quits. My Mom thinks it’s no big deal because as she says you don’t have to have a shower And that it’s too late to send out invites because I already sent the wedding invites. Is that true ? Can you send bridal shower invites out after you sent the wedding invites out?