(Closed) Frustrated to say the least!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Are you sure your Maid/Matron of Honor is unwiling to host? Your sister could always hand over the reigns.

And it’s fine to send out shower invites after wedding invites–just make sure everyone invited to your shower is also invited to the wedding!

But if no one is willing to host, you might have to give up on the shower. A lot of women don’t have them!

Post # 4
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I didn’t really have a shower either so to speak, but I am sorry about the attitudes you’re getting about your age and your second marriage. I don’t think it’s wrong of you to want to celebrate certain bridal & wedding traditions that you didn’t get to the first time around.


It’s definitely okay to send shower invites after the wedding invites. I would also see if your Maid/Matron of Honor wouldn’t mind stepping in to take some pull on the reins if your sister is really balking that hard at hosting your shower.

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