- 12 years ago
Ok….I frequent wedding bee everday but I have never posted anything. Today is the day. Here’s the run down…So I decided I’m going to plan my own wedding, I’m a marketing/PR director and I plan stuff for a living so why should I pay someone. On top of the regular wedding stuff (vendors, decor, invites, etc) my FH decides he needs me to do the following:
1. Go take 3 of his groomsmens measurements to the tuxedo place!
2. Scout hotels for his bachelor party!
3. Reserve rooms at the hotel for his family!
I did #1 but I was not happy about it. These are grown a** men! They should do that themselves. Our tux rental place allows out of town people to reserve online or call in. Why ask the bride???!!!!! I swear this man is clueless and doesn’t get it.
We he asked me to do #2, I snapped. I was pissed. Where is your best man, huh? Why isn’t he doing that??? And I ask again…WHY ASK THE BRIDE!!!!! This beehive led to us arguing because he sees it a me not wanting to do something he asks me to do!!! Can you say clueless? I told him that I have a list a mile long and him adding stuff to it is not right!!!! My freaking hair is falling out!!!! I’M STRESSED!!!
Now #3…since I didnt want to start another arguement, I did it but was not happy. I called and got the hotel discount. The least his family could do is reserve their won damn rooms!!! UGGGGG!!
So, bee hive, I need to know am I wrong??? Did I mention that I have one full-time job and two part-time jobs, planning my own wedding and making my own centerpieces!!!!
Please give me some advice to deal with him!!! I apologize in advance for any misspelled words. I had to get it out. God willing I’m getting married Saturday! Pray for me!