(Closed) frustrating bridesmaid – HELP!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

First, I’m sorry.  I hate when my friends are flaky, especially on things that are so important.  Since I don’t know your friend, I’ll assume she is a decent person (you did pick her to be in your wedding after all), but obviously she does not consider your wedding a priority.  If you feel this strongly about her actions and decisions, you should talk to her.  Maybe if you explain that the invites to your shower are already out and if she doesn’t have definite plans to go to Europe yet she should consider moving her date. 

As far as the dress goes, I am not sure you have anything to be upset at your friend over.  She didn’t ask you to pay for the dress nor do you know the full extent of her finances.  Perhaps her new bf is footing the bill to Europe?  Or her definition of having no money is different from yours?  Money is something that is usually a complaint for everyone, so maybe she just needed to vent.

Sorry your friend is not supporting you as she should.  Hopefully she realizes it before your shower and will be there to share the occasion with you!

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