(Closed) Frustration

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Just ignore them and plan it if that’s what you want to do. Make sure there’s at least a reasonable amount of time in between so that his older sister can have plenty of time for herself and if you can plan it for afterward just so that she’s over everything by the time yours comes around. Or just elope, whatever works for you.

Post # 4
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think that if you want to get married this year and plan a wedding, as long as you don’t have it too close they shouldn’t have a problem with it. You could also set your date for early next year, if you can wait that long. If you are both fine with eloping and won’t miss doing the wedding, then I say go ahead. You will probably save a lot of money doing it that way, but make sure you think it through, so you won’t later feel disappointed that you eloped.

Post # 5
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

As has been said many many times on this site…you get a wedding DAY not a wedding YEAR.  She can whine all she wants but that’s really selfish to demand that you not get married in the same YEAR as her.  Plan your wedding for whenever you want.  If you’re both getting married in town and don’t expect a lot of travelers, then you can plan within two weeks of hers (to allow for a honeymoon).  If you ARE expecting a lot of Out of Town guests, then you should give a bumper of at least a month.

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