(Closed) Frustration!

posted 10 years ago in October 2011
Post # 3
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m 25, but have gotten a bit of it from random people because I look very young. I haven’t met anyone wedding related in person yet (I have my first venue meeting on Thursday, so we’ll see what happens), so I think that’s helped with a lot of it.

The only advice I can offer is that anyone who won’t give you the time of day because of how you look is NOT someone you want to do business with.

Post # 4
23 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

omg I know just how you feel! I am also a young oct bride to be(I’m 21)…And actually when my mom and I went to look at a venue they started talking to her about about what she was thinking and she looked at them and was like I belive you should be asking the bride to be those questions, the lady then turned to me and looked at my like I had to heads!! I understand most of mine cus from the fact that I look even younger then I am but seriously even if you think someone is young you should still treat them they same as every other customer.

Post # 5
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I just tell people who are nosey to mind their own business.  As for the vendors, just let them know you won’t be using them for their costumer service. 

Post # 6
1937 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m young (23) and definitely find that how I present myself affects how I am treated.  When dealing with vendors, etc. I would be sure to wear semi-professional clothing when meeting them (dress pants and shirt/ cardigan), would avoid “slang” in professional correspondence (i.e. e-mail) and paid a lot of attention to my body language (firm handshake, looking at the person in the eye while speaking etc).  I know if seems silly (and you should be treated the same no matter what) – but, I found that it really matters.

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