- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I need to vent! My two best friends from HS are my Matron and Maid of Honor. My three sisters are my Bridesmaids. My dear sister, whom I love is really getting under my skin. She has the tightest budget of any of the other girls in my wedding, so I am trying to be accommodating. Mind you, I AM PAYING FOR their jewelry, their shoes and their nails AND doing it all on the tightest of tight budgets. First she asked why didnt I ask one of my sisters (really meaning her) to be my Maid/Matron of Honor and I told her because I wanted my two best friends to be. Then she has all these stipulations about her dress at the last minute–doesnt want to show her arms or legs, so needs a long dress with a jacket. WHATEVER!
So Ive been emailing them pics of dresses to narrow down their selections. My two other sisters chose the same one, then this one goes and finds one that she likes WAY out of her price point. Then she wants to order it herself so she can put it on a credit card. (we save on shipping if I order all the dresses). So we’re on the phone and I tell her that Ive made up my mind and am going with the final dress I showed them. THEN she says, shes going to DILLARDS because theyre going to be putting out their prom dresses and she wants to see if she can find anything there.
????Did you not hear what I just said? Im tired of looking for dresses. Im done. Ive sent you the final dress, thats it. You know how to sew, make yourself a jacket or better yet just suck it up for ONE day and do this for your baby sister.
This is really bothering me because even though Im close to all my sisters, Im closest to this one, sharing everything with her. But Ive even stopped showing her my ideas and plans for things to do with the wedding. I tell you, if she says or does one more thing Im going to UNFRIEND her from my wedding!