(Closed) FSIL a bridesmaid?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I did – and I am really glad I did it.  Not only will she be a good addition because of her creative mind (I don’t have much of one) but it also made her feel great and I like her!  It gives her the opportunity to be a part of the family, especially since FI’s two sisters are in the bridal party as well.  If you don’t really have a bond there is no need unless your brother is engaged IMO.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It depends IMO. My now SIL expected to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man and was a little shocked (and upset) when we decided not to have a Bridal Party. Everyone else we knew expected that she would be considered a Bridesmaid or Best Man (if not a MOH) when we announced that we were engaged.

However, I’ve already told DH that if and when SIL gets married, I’m not interested in being in the Bridal Party unless she really really really has to have me. I wouldn’t be offended if she didn’t ask me. This is how I felt prior to our wedding, so it’s not like a tit for tat type thing.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

I didn’t make my Future Sister-In-Law one and she didn’t make me one. Have who you want as your BMs. While the thought is nice- it isn’t necessary.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My Future Sister-In-Law is one of my bridesmaids!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Im not having my FSILs as BMs, I have an older sister and 2 very close friends I wanted, if I had room for then I may have asked one of them. I’m including all of their kids as flower girls, ring bearers and the eldest as a junior Bridesmaid or Best Man though.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

My younger Future Sister-In-Law is one of my BMs, mostly because she’s like a little sister to me. I adore her. The other Future Sister-In-Law (his brother’s wife), no, never.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I asked my Future Sister-In-Law to be my bridesmaid, and I’m glad I did; I really like her a lot!  She’s always been super nice to me and made a concerted effort to help me fit in when I went to visit FI’s family, and I hope we’ll be really close for a long time to come.

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