- 3 years ago
- Wedding: August 2015
I’ve always gotten along great with both my FSIL’s. The one was just married recently, and was 8 months pregnant at the wedding. I literally did everything for her to make sure her wedding day was perfect. I mean, a lot of blood, sweat and tears.
For an example: The day before the wedding, the tent for the reception collapsed. In 24 hours we had to move the entire wedding. I didn’t sleep, I didn’t eat. But I got it done. It was perfect. The day of the wedding, I did half the girls hair and make up, plus my own. I stood in the wedding by her side with little to no sleep, or food in my system.
My sister did her photography. She really is a great photographer, but she’s still building her portfolio so she did her wedding(ALL DAY)for $800 and my FSIL got 500 pics with all rights to the photos. Well, she’s had issues getting the flash drive to work on her computer. My sister has NEVER had an issue with anyones flash drives not working. It seems like every time my sister tries to fix it, and it “works”, it doesn’t work for my FSIL so there has been alot of drama there.
Now she’s had the baby. He’s adorable, but she is now a monster. She literally FREAKS on people if they ask to hold him. Her dad has had to tell her to “calm the F down, and stop being a crazy B”. When people ask to hold him she’ll yell “no, he’s my baby!” or if someone is holding him and he starts to cry she’ll yell “what are you doing to my baby to make him cry?!” You guys… she’s lost it! She was one of those people who NEVER cared about anything! “oh, the tent fell down, oh well, we’ll figure it out” kinda girl.
She still lives at home with her parents. Her, husband and baby. She really hasn’t had to do much for herself and honestly I’m a little bitter because my wedding is less than 9 months away, and I have yet to have someone even ask “hows the wedding planning” because everything revolves around FSIL 24/7.
Well, today my sister tells me the flash drive isn’t working correctly again, and now she has to contact FSIL and tell her this. I told her to offer a free photoshoot of whatever/whenever to make things right. I’m honestly losing it. I’ve done so much for this girl. MY family has, FI’s family has and yet she is being so ungrateful and crazy! Not to mention my sister had spend 10+ hours editing her wedding photos so she could have them a WEEK after her wedding. She did this while she was a FULL TIME STUDENT!
Tomorrow is her baby shower, and honestly I’m not looking forward to going. I use to get along with her so great and now… I just don’t know. I’m not sure what exactly I’m looking for. Whether it be a vent, or advice. But any words of wisdom would help.
Also- The only people who can do anything “right” is her husbands family. Any of her own family could do the exact same thing and they’ll get yelled at for doing it “wrong”.
UGH I’M LOSING MY MIND!