(Closed) FSIL always wants to do things with FI… without me

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 61
1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

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Bexx:  I agree with this.

My sisters and I have sister nights where husbands/boyfriends/even other friends are specifically excluded. It is important to us to have this time together without feeling like we need to include others. If one of my sisters started demanding that their Fiance must be allowed to come to these nights every once in awhile or complained the entire time about how much they miss their Fiance and how they would have a better time if Fiance were there, I would be extremely put off and find the whole thing needy and ridiculous.

Also, how does Future Sister-In-Law and your Fiance going to a restaurant all of the sudden block you and your Fiance from going? Just go sometime later. I’ve eaten at restaurants with my family that Fiance wants to go to. I go eat, rave about how good the food was, and then Fiance and I go back later. I find it especially weird since it is your FMIL/FFIL who are recommending the place to begin with. 

Post # 62
312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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lolalulu_24:  Is it possible she just doesn’t want you there because you would make sure she paid for her own drinks? It sounds like she just doesn’t want to give up her free (nice) meal ticket to me.

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