(Closed) FSIL as bridesmaid?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Did you meet him through her?  There’s no going back now, but I asked permission from my friend before dating her brother.  Six years ago!  I wanted to make sure she was okay with it before I went and fell in love with him.  

Post # 5
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22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

How does your Fiance (her brother) feel about your realationship with her? Maybe he can talk to her about it with her. Is she jealous that her brother is getting married before her? I say you need to fix this now, not just because you want her to be supportive at the wedding and have fun, but this is the rest of your life. She will now be your family, you childrens aunt. Either you talk to her or have Fiance talk to her. My Maid/Matron of Honor is having the same issue with her SIL. She didn’t even ask to see her ring when they got engaged. She was jealous, bc she never got an engagement ring herself, although now she has a tiffanys all encusted diamond band that cost more than a car…still no need to rain on anyones parade. Its your day and you deserve to be happy!!

Post # 7
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8472 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t think she’s worthy enough to be in the wedding.  She doesn’t sound like the nicest girl out there, regardless if she’s your FI’s sister or not.  Choose girls that show you that they are happy for your relationship, because this one doesn’t sound like she is.

Post # 9
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Well if you want her apart of it, you have to be ready that she may make this experience hell for you. Or asking her may just make her want to bury the hatchet.

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