(Closed) FSIL Bridesmaid – How to Ask

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@blurmeblue: Ask them yourself. It’ll mean more coming from you. If your Fiance asks them for you it could seem like you are asking them out of obligation.

You could also ask them via a cute note card if you don’t feel comfortable calling them.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

If they are going to be on your side, ask them yourself! =)
I asked my Future Sister-In-Law and she was so stoked; mind you she is 15 lol! But im sure yours will be equally excited to be apart of the big day! xo

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I asked! Although I waited until I knew we’d all be over at his parents house, I didn’t want to call or do by note. She was psyched.

Post # 6
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2714 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was in the same situation as you. I’m not particularly close to Future Sister-In-Law, but she is family so we decided to include her. I asked her myself and she was actually very excited and surprised, so I’m glad I got to have that moment with her. You should ask his sisters!

Post # 7
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I didn’t ask my Future Sister-In-Law and now I don’t know what to do. I thought my bridesmaids were supposed to be my friends and I’m not close to Future Sister-In-Law. She asked Fiance about it and he got really upset…my mom says that I have to ask her now but I don’t want it to be super awkward! If I ask now it will seem like I’m asking because she asked to be asked!

Unfortunately I just didn’t realize this would be a big deal. A lot of my family is included but I have children in my family and he doesn’t, so we used them as ring bearer/flower girl etc. All of his groomsmen are his friends, and not my brothers.

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