FSIL drama

posted 5 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

Ugh, she sounds like a total pain in the ass. hopefully you fiance sees that and has your back.

Congrats on your wedding – sounds like it will be super cute and fun!

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

laniegirl84 :  SHe sounds pretty awful, and it doesn’t sound like you’re really even friends so why is she even in the wedding?

Your mom should have told her NO on that dress, but what’s done is done. Hopefully you guys can get through your big day without fighting.

Post # 4
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2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

She talks about what her own brother does in bed?? Um, ewwww.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

laniegirl84 :  You guys will just need to distance yourself from her upon marriage. See her at family gatherings and the occasional weekend lunch but dont let her have an open invitation to your home. If it persists your husband will just need to give her a good telling off and you’ll just have minimal contact with her. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

It really isn’t a good reflection of you and your relationship with your hubby to speak critically of him in front of others. This is something I struggle with and I’m learning how much it affects my husband.

That being said… WOW RUDE… Complains about not being able to afford AN OPEN ENDED DRESS and then blows up someone’s generosity? Can you kick her out of the wedding AND get your mother’s money back?

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1995

I hope you mom tells her that she only agreed to pay to pay a certain amount and only gives her that much.  I wouldn’t pay the full amount.  There are plenty of bargain dresses out there.  

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

PaperQueen :  +1.

OP- what did your mother say about the cost of the dress? If she doesn’t consider the price too outrageously expensive, I’d let it go. It’s probably best, though, to give specific numbers when providing a budget for people. It sounds like Future Sister-In-Law may have been taking advantage, but there is always the risk that what one person considers outrageously expensive, another considers very reasonable.

Post # 12
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Busy bee

Two times the budget is one time too bad! Your mom should pay for the amount she agreed to, not a penny more. And she shouldn’t feel bad about it either!

Also – in this day in age – why does a grown man need to be told not to drink and drive? This blows my mind

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

Ughhh I feel you! My fiancé has a sister that’s a total B. When we first started dating (I actually met him through her, I’d known her for years) she also told me something that someone said about him after sleeping with him. GROSS! Why would anyone tell that to someone’s sister and why would they listen and repeat? And wtf drunk driving kills people, she’s ridiculous to think that’s cool. Good for you for getting him to stop! 

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