- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
So I had recently posted about my horrid Future Sister-In-Law. Well we all got into it because she likes to lie… A LOT and about EVERYTHING! I also don’t talk to friends and such about this because we all know the same people and I feel that would put them in a akward position… which isn’t fair to the friends. Well the Future Sister-In-Law doesn’t care! She tells everyone but of course I’m made out to be this horrible person when she is the one who flipped! She even said things to my future family. When the truth is she said some very harsh/horrible things to me because I told her I don’t like lying and how I felt we could have a great relationship if she would just own up and we could talk and move past it.Well I was wrong and I’m childish and love to fight with people. NO I will just stand up for myself when everyone else will just roll over and let you lie like a crazy person because they’ve pretty much come to know that everything you say is a lie!
Well my Future Brother-In-Law now dropped out of the wedding(which we really think it was her texting my Fiance not the Future Brother-In-Law… crazy!) and my Fiance says he doesn’t care but he really does hope he changes his mind and his brother is by his side.
I can’t help it the Future Brother-In-Law thinks poorly of me because of her… and I will never try to convince him otherwise because I know what kind of person I am and I know I’m not what she makes me out to be. But I feel bad for my Fiance. He told me not to trust her ect ect but I really was excited to have a sister and didn’t listen!
It was actually at the point where we told her NOTHING of importance. But I’m not good at fake conversations and smiles so I tried to confront her and work past it… Bad idea. I don’t want her in my house, around my future kids or me… but I do want the relationship between my Fiance and his brother to get repaired :/
So Bees… What to do?