(Closed) FSIL (Help!!!!… advice needed)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
12108 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Well, I don’t know if this will help you or not, but I don’t think there is a lot you can do about this situation!  She’s not really your Future Sister-In-Law, since she’s not married to your FI’s brother–like you said, things can change.  Are they even talking about marriage?

What does your Fiance think about this whole situation?  Can he talk to his brother about it?  It sounds like a mess, and she sounds like a very difficult person to get along with. 

Post # 5
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would say just try to stay calm about the situation, however maddening it feels at times.  Focus on the fact that your relationship with your future in-laws is good.  And as Mrs. Mouse points out, she’s not married to your future bro-in-law, so at this point she’s not your future sis-in-law.  I think just do the best you can, try to be polite & friendly, and try to let the rest of it go since there isn’t much you can do about it anyway.

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