(Closed) FSIL is being unfair to my FI (long vent NWR)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@reinab505: If that money is rightfully his then he should get it all back, IMO. I would have been LIVID if I found out my sibling had been spending my money. 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

wow.  that is stealing.  She should get in trouble for stealing.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

That is definitely stealing. Your Fiance should get all that money back.

Maybe not demand it all immediately, as that would likely break his sister’s family, but maybe give them a deadline to have it all paid back? Some sort of payment plan?

That way, your Fiance can be generous in patience and in time, but still have his resources justly restored.

Of course, if it gets really ugly, he could bring it to the courts and they would set it right in a flash–but I hope it never gets to that point!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

wow, that is a really terrible thing for his sister to do.  that is stealing, no matter which way you slice it.  she should have to pay it all back in full, even if she has to do it in payments.

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