(Closed) FSIL is such a B***H!!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow that is so incredibly rude of her to say that!  I think that you just have to deal with her, since you are getting married this Saturday (EEE!), it will all be over with her soon.  Just remember that you are marrying her brother, not her and you don’t have to talk to her later if you don’t want to!

Post # 4
Member
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yikes, it just sounds like shes jealous! Try and calm down and remember you are marrying your wonderful fiance!! dont let HER ruin your day! 

Post # 6
Member
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh goodness, so sorry you have to deal with this! Well, she’s Future Sister-In-Law, so I wouldn’t do anything about it right now except completely ignore her. Make her stand farthest away from you in the lineup, seat her away from you at the reception and have her hair appointment last. It’s a passive aggressive approach, but seriously you don’t have much of a choice b/c it would be waay worse to get in a fight right now.

After the wedding, keep avoiding her but if she says anything out of line to your face give her a stern response that you’re sorry she feels that way, but it would be best if the two of you refrained from passing judgement on each other. And stare at her square in the eyes.

Post # 7
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yikes, hope she’s not on weddingbee!  This would be war 🙂

So sorry you’re dealing with her crap, she sounds really dreadful.  It also sounds like its all rooted in jealousy.  She is most likely not happy with her choices, so she’s ‘hating’ on yours.  Hopefully it all dies down after the wedding! 

Post # 9
Member
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

Um…I hope you kept the receipt to her Bridesmaid or Best Man gift.  I hate when people are fake like this.  But did she honestly think that your Boyfriend or Best Friend wouldn’t tell you what she said??  I think she WANTS you to know what she’s thinking to stir up drama.  Just ignore her.  Clearly her own marriage is heading south and being in your wedding is accentuating her insecurities.  Let her say what she wants.  Ignore her.  After the wedding you don’t have to socialize with her at all anymore.  Only five more days until you’re free!

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