Post # 1
I am putting that nicely! She has been nothing but a complainer! I am so busy with the wedding, this is the last week to get all the final details completed. She is such a backstabber, she talks so much about me behind my back. But when I confront her about it, she cant dish it out. I am so stressed with having my wedding this Saturday and having to deal with this. She told my Best Friend that she sees her brother and I getting a divorce! How can someone say that!!? She does not have any room to talk, she has gotten divorced and she is having problems with her current husband. Lets just say she deprives him from having fun with his friends. I am sorry I had to vent about this. I just want to slap her in the face for how fake she is!! To top it off, she is my bridesmaid in the wedding! (not by choice) Anyone else have to deal with this? Advice?
Post # 3
Wow that is so incredibly rude of her to say that! I think that you just have to deal with her, since you are getting married this Saturday (EEE!), it will all be over with her soon. Just remember that you are marrying her brother, not her and you don’t have to talk to her later if you don’t want to!
Post # 4
Yikes, it just sounds like shes jealous! Try and calm down and remember you are marrying your wonderful fiance!! dont let HER ruin your day!
Post # 5
Thank you so much ladies. Its just frustrating. I have been nice to her as best as I am able to. She knows nothing about me! Once we are married I just want to cut her out of my life!! I dont want someone so fake in my life. I have better things going for me.
Post # 6
Oh goodness, so sorry you have to deal with this! Well, she’s Future Sister-In-Law, so I wouldn’t do anything about it right now except completely ignore her. Make her stand farthest away from you in the lineup, seat her away from you at the reception and have her hair appointment last. It’s a passive aggressive approach, but seriously you don’t have much of a choice b/c it would be waay worse to get in a fight right now.
After the wedding, keep avoiding her but if she says anything out of line to your face give her a stern response that you’re sorry she feels that way, but it would be best if the two of you refrained from passing judgement on each other. And stare at her square in the eyes.
Post # 7
Yikes, hope she’s not on weddingbee! This would be war 🙂
So sorry you’re dealing with her crap, she sounds really dreadful. It also sounds like its all rooted in jealousy. She is most likely not happy with her choices, so she’s ‘hating’ on yours. Hopefully it all dies down after the wedding!
Post # 8
Very great advice moderndaisy. She has most definetly earned a spot on the reject table! Ha ha I love being in control. I just cannot wait to be married and cut her out of my life.
Post # 9
Um…I hope you kept the receipt to her Bridesmaid or Best Man gift. I hate when people are fake like this. But did she honestly think that your Boyfriend or Best Friend wouldn’t tell you what she said?? I think she WANTS you to know what she’s thinking to stir up drama. Just ignore her. Clearly her own marriage is heading south and being in your wedding is accentuating her insecurities. Let her say what she wants. Ignore her. After the wedding you don’t have to socialize with her at all anymore. Only five more days until you’re free!
Post # 10
Ha ha thank you MightySapphire. I never planned on getting her a gift. I have tried to be nice so she wouldnt have to talk about me behind my back. Thats probably why she has no friends. Im done with her though. I was even nice enough to buy her Bridesmaids dress and shoes.. If she would have said this before, she would not even be in my line. I think she is mad because me and her brother are more together and in love than her and her husband. Thats not my problem though.. I still cannot believe she would tell all that stuff to my Boyfriend or Best Friend. But the Boyfriend or Best Friend tells me everything that she has said. That way I know who im dealing with. 5 days and counting!!!