(Closed) FSIL – picked same wedding date – gotta vent!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

good lord. cut the bitc.… Future Sister-In-Law out and call your brother. Tell him that as far as you knew they had not picked a date and you had decided on 9//11… but if they are getting married then you’ll change. You jsut need to know by X date so you can start planning. 🙂

Post # 4
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1220 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Call her out on it and move on.  

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

She could have handled that a little more like an adult. I mean really, she runs to FB to complain about it. I honestly think that was just an attention thing. She wanted to let ppl know so they would sympathize with her. I would call and work it out with your brother like Corgi said.

Post # 6
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5823 posts
Bee Keeper

That is so annoying!!  I would have your brother deal with it.  Explain to him that you didn’t know about their date, and that you’re open to change since your Future Sister-In-Law is so pissed as to go on Facebook.  Tell him you need to know their date NOW so that you can start planning.  If he tells you they don’t have one yet, completely ignore your Future Sister-In-Law.  She’ll get over it ::drama queen::.

I’m impressed By The Way.  Rather than posting this on FB, you posted here, very mature!

Post # 7
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100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yeah, keep your date.  She’s had plenty of time to plan the wedding and be married by now.  I bet she’s acting immature because she’s jealous that you picked a date before her. 

Post # 8
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542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Seriously?  I am so tired of people using facebook to advertise stuff that has no business being posted on there.  If they hadn’t selected a date after all that time, I find it a little odd that they just happened to pick out the same date as you did.  Talk to your brother and hope that he will work with you to smooth out the situation.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I just gotta say one thing..

If facebook didnt exist… life would be good!

She may just think she got engaged first that she has first dibs. To me its whoever announces it first. However very good of you to extend the olive branch. I would talk to your brother about how your feeling and talk to him,  as soon as you get a male involved it cuts out the b!tchiness sometimes.

Good luck!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Wow that’s super passive aggressive of her!  You need to talk to her and make her be straight with you.  Sharing a wedding month can be a challenge for some brides to handle … could she have been exaggerating because of that?

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