(Closed) FSIL unnecessary reaction – vent

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MUI831: Sorry that this happened to you but yes she sounds like she is being a Brat over human error. I would say to save yourself further grief, just send her a new RSVP card and not a full invitation… She is in the wedding and knows all the details and does not need 2.


Good Luck


Post # 4
1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

UGH….are you kidding me!!! Your Fiance needs to tell her she is not getting a new invitation…period.  AND…she’s one of your bridesmaids!!?  Im sorry, people suck sometimes!!

Post # 5
313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wouldn’t send her a new invitation, but that’s just me. Telling her was nice enough. I’m a huge fan (and i think I’ve said this like 8990984938 times) of FI’s handling their families so that their SO doesn’t have to be the bad guy. It’s on your FH to deal with his sister and let her know that she’s overracting. I wouldn’t step in to do it myself.

Post # 6
2819 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Wow. That is way out of line on her part!

Post # 8
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

you made an honest mistake and her reaction was rude but i still would send her a correct invitation

ask yourself if she wasnt Future Sister-In-Law and was a average joe invited guest would you correct your error and resend? i would in this situation

Post # 9
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

New invitation… um NO. She is a close first degree relative, she can change the 1 to a 2 herself if she wants. lol. but she doesn’t need a brand new invitation. She needs to get over herself.

Post # 10
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@MUI831: I live right outside the chicago…. if you  need me to make a trip to “take care” of you Future Sister-In-Law i can do that lol!!

i cant believe this 28 year old just threw a tantrum over something so simple. i would def NOT send her a new invite. find another family memeber that fits her dress and enjoy your day!

Post # 11
620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

No way would she (or anybody else for that matter) get a new invitation if you had the courtesy to call and explain that it was an honest mistake and that they do indeed get a +1! 

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