(Closed) FSIL wearing an ivory and black “statement” dress to the wedding??

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 32
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457 posts
Helper bee

She is def trying to get a rise out of you. My Mother-In-Law for MONTHS kept talking about wearing and Ivory dress, and her and her daughter would actually send me pics of herself in IVORY dresses, I was upset, but didn’t feed into her, it’s what she totally wanted. The day of the wedding, I had NO clue what she was going to wear, but she didn’t wear white and I was relieved. His sister did show up to the Rehearsal Dinner in an Ivory gown though but it was hysterical, she looked so stupid ( seriously we had a backyard BBQ)

My best advise, is to ignore her, or have your Fiance try to casually bring it up. If she knows your upset, it will just fuel her more. It’s true, the only person that is going to look stupid is HER if she wears that to your wedding. My SIL came to our wedding in a really short tacky dress, and people are still talking about it, people will DEF notice how tacky she is if she does that.

Post # 33
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827 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My friend’s SIL wore a white dress to my friend’s wedding.  My friend didn’t seem to mind, but all I could think (as a guest) was, “What an attention-seeking B*tch.”

If any of your guests wear a white dress to your wedding, most of the other guests won’t even notice.  And those who do, will think that the girl is a loser.

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